Don’t run with the opposite sex too often in private. You really can’t afford these risks.

Opposites attract, men and women work together, running is not tiring!

When male runners are running, if there are beautiful women next to them, male runners will pay close attention to their pace, and will naturally want to take care of the girls next to them, and the male running performance will be better.

When female runners are running, if there are handsome men running with them, they will also be very happy, and male runners will often take good care of them, helping them take pictures, buy water, or explain the precautions needed during running.

These are all very normal phenomena, but some people in the running circle have ulterior motives, especially married people, to “flirt” with the opposite sex, even with bad intentions.

And some middle-aged people with boring lives are prone to running together.


Therefore, in the running circle, never make appointments with the opposite sex for running frequently, because you are likely to encounter the following risks…

First, it is easy to spark

During the running process, the same frequency of footsteps, the same hobbies, and common pursuits can easily make runners have emotional resonance.

In fact, even if you run with a same-sex runner, you will often feel that you “met too late”.
If you often run with a runner of the opposite sex, it is easy to spark.

 

Second, it is easy to get into trouble.

Running frequently with the opposite sex is easy to get into trouble, especially for married people.
Many middle-aged people’s marriages are lifeless, and many spouses do not support their running.

If you run frequently with the opposite sex, it is easy to magnify the advantages of the other party, and even feel that the spouse at home is useless.

Human nature is the most vulnerable to the test. Two people who are often together can easily cause a lot of trouble.

Third, gossip

Running alone often leads to misunderstandings.

When friends and colleagues around you see you and the opposite sex appearing frequently on the track, their speculation and discussion will follow.

Even if everything is just out of pure interest and exercise, the pressure of social public opinion may make people feel uncomfortable.

Not to mention some unfounded things, plus everyone likes gossip, under the collective spread of the running circle, all kinds of exaggerated stories will be spread…

Fourth, it is easy to leave a negative impression in the running circle

Any opposite sex who frequently makes appointments for running, especially when both are not single, it is easy to leave a bad impression in the running circle.

Even, others will hesitate again and again when they interact with you in the future.

Fifth, it causes family conflicts

Gossip spreads very quickly and is very easy to reach the ears of your family.
It is very easy to cause family conflicts.
This may be the beginning of danger and may break the originally stable family life.

So, especially married people, you must pay attention and never put yourself in a dangerous situation.

If you are single, you also need to be more vigilant. In the running circle, there are indeed some people with bad intentions who pretend to be single to tease single runners.

In short, the relationship between runners is as plain as water. Everyone may only know each other’s online name, and our communication is limited to running.

Author: levis niu

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